Remaking the Self Coaching

  

I break this offering down "for women," and "for men." I am a cis-het woman, and  typically work with people who identify similarly. However, there is no gender restriction  or requirement on this work. I am speaking about the social constructs of gender  pressure and performance that alienate us from ourselves, and from the feminine. Feel free to read both descriptions, and if either or both of them call to you, this work is for you.  

 

For Women  

You have the career success. You’ve secured the bag. You have the income, you have  the education, you’ve done everything you’re supposed to do to be successful. You've  checked all the boxes — but now you're looking around at your life and you feel  dissatisfied. 

You feel disconnected from your self — from your desires. All of your energy goes  toward your career, toward taking care of others, and at the end of the day there’s  nothing left for you. 

Maybe your trust issues are on 10. You don’t let anyone get close to you, you don’t rely  on anyone because your experience has shown you they’ll just let you down. If you  want something done right, you do it yourself (and this may apply to your s*x life, too). 

Maybe you’ve stopped putting extra time, effort, and energy into taking care of yourself,  your body, your health, your appearance — why bother? Besides, you’re too busy  working and taking care of everyone else; taking care of you just feels like one more  chore you never get to.  

You may have been convinced that all anyone cares about, where you’re concerned, is  how hard you work, how successful you are, or how much you do for other people, and  that’s left you feeling bitter, lonely, isolated, and frustrated.  

No one can tell from looking at you that the designer luggage you're carrying is full of  past hurts, traumas, and painful disappointments that you’ve never been able to heal or  resolve.  

You’re at the top of your game in so many areas of life…so why aren’t you happy? You want to know yourself. To know what it feels like to love yourself as a verb, to be  poured into. You want to create a lush and fecund lifestyle that centers all of your  desires and interests (just as soon as you reconnect to what those are).  

You’re disenchanted with the status quo, and none of the solutions you’ve sought so far  have filled the hole in your heart or in your spirit. You’re ready for real solutions that are  rooted in a tangible connection to source (whether you call it the Goddess, ancestors, universe, nature).

You want to be of service to the divine, and receive the blessings that result from doing  so.  

If you’re feeling attacked right now and wondering if I’m speaking directly to you, then I’d  like to invite you to apply for Remaking the Self coaching.  

Within this exclusive coaching container, my clients can benefit from divination,  mediumship, hypnotherapy, teachings about spirituality, and herbalism advice, as well  as solution-focused conversations that help you begin to make decisions that support  you in creating the life you desire and deserve.  

My coaching style is private, professional, intimate, and incorporates the spirit of  exclusivity, glamour, fine art, luxury, and all things that my particular style of goddess  enjoys (independent of whether the client specifically requests a focus upon Goddess  Worship or not). 

When you enter into the Remaking the Self coaching container with me, you can expect  exclusivity, privacy, and a singular level of service. This intimate container is uniquely  designed to your needs with the intention to transform your life, from the inside out.  

Remaking the Self coaching containers are 3 months long, with 2 one on one (video/ calls) per month, and is a $9,999 investment. Limit 3 clients quarterly.  

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For Men  

You’re surrounded by expectations. Everyone needs you to perform, to hold everything together. 

You do, nonstop. But inside, you’re not okay. And you feel like no one cares. You have no where to express your hurt, your tiredness; and even if you did, would it be safe? 

You feel like your “manhood” depends upon you holding it all together. The expectation of this masculine performance permeates every relationship in your life, every context you occupy, every room you walk into: the strong one, the silent one, the one who’s always there, the one who holds everyone down, and lifts everyone else up. 

There’s a role you have to play to be accepted, to have your “manhood” validated, and frankly, the role is feeling like a burden. 

Maybe some of the women in your life have encouraged you to share your feelings, or said you’re too walled off. They insist that they want you to open up but if you do, will they see you the same way? 

Maybe you even want to open up, but you don’t know where to start. Is it safe? Will your manhood be challenged if you show your hurt, your frustration, your rage, your truth? Where can you be truly yourself, in all aspects of you, without fear of judgement? How do you let down the walls that hold you together, without fear that you’ll completely fall apart? 

Maybe you’ve tried to share your pain in the past, but when you have it’s been unsafe. People have criticized you, diminished your experiences, or made you feel less-than a man for showing your tenderness. 

“Be a man.” That phrase has resounded throughout your life, has trapped you inside yourself. 

But what does that really mean? You know inside that something isn’t right. You’re disenchanted with the status quo, and none of the solutions you’ve sought so far have filled the hole in your heart or in your spirit. 

You’re ready for real solutions that are rooted in a tangible connection to source (whether you call it the Goddess, ancestors, universe, nature). You want to be of service to the divine, and receive the blessings that result from doing so. 

If you’re feeling called out and wondering if I’m speaking directly to you, then I’d like to invite you to apply for Remaking the Self Coaching. 

Within this exclusive coaching container, my clients can benefit from divination, mediumship, hypnotherapy, teachings about spirituality, and herbalism advice, as well as solution-focused conversations that help you begin to make decisions that support you in creating the life you desire and deserve. 

My coaching style is private, professional, intimate, and incorporates the spirit of exclusivity, glamour, fine art, luxury, and all things that my particular style of goddess enjoys (independent of whether the client specifically requests a focus upon Goddess Worship or not). 

When you enter into the Remaking the Self coaching container with me, you can expect exclusivity, privacy, and a singular level of service. This intimate container is uniquely designed to your needs with the intention to transform your life, from the inside out. 

Remaking the Self coaching containers are 3 months long, with 2 one on one (video/ calls) per month, and is a $9,999 investment. Limit 3 clients quarterly. 

APPLY HERE  

For certain individuals, doing this coaching work within a risk-aware, consensual kink framework may be compelling and appropriate. This could mean your devoted service to me as your Goddess, or simply learning to connect to and venerate the Goddess in her many manifestations. If this is something that appeals to you, please indicate it on your application and we will discuss it on your discovery call. If this is not for you, it will  not be included.


 

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This is an initial consultation where we will discuss in depth about your interest in healing, goals and priorities, and questions about the services offered by Negarra A. Kudumu | Art + Healing. The session will last 45 minutes and the information gleaned will be used to provide recommendations for the services that will best meet your needs.